notes for reading

Email and the Slow Web

2025-10-08 [Wed] 21:00 UTC
#tech #internet

I recently had a friend end up in the hospital, and he was able to bring a phone with him. He didn't have XMPP on his phone and I didn't want to install Discord.

The solution? Email!

I have plenty of old email addresses from friends. We've left Facebook and we've changed numbers but our email addresses are here to stay. The only kind of person who is unable to keep an email address is so mentally unwell, they probably aren't worth conversing with anyway.

Outside of work or school, I don't think anyone uses email. It's a damn shame. Not everyone has Telegram/Xmpp/Discord/Instagram, and not everyone wants to share their phone number (for Whatsapp/Signal). But I think virtually everyone has at least one email address. Making a new email address takes minutes and after it gets added to your phone or desktop it's as easy to use it as any other account.

Emails can be as long or short as you want, much like a blog post. And, generally speaking, there is no expectation to answer an email immediately.

One way to categorize the modern internet channels is by speed, where

Probably the most controversial categorization would be calling fediverse a moderate-speed channel despite the fact that posts are often coming in at the rate of 30 an hour or more. But the tendency of the network is to post and contribute mindfully. The typical fediverse post will be shorter than a typical blog post, but will be more meaningful than a chat blurb on Discord or shitpost on 4chan. In the same way, emails generally are more pleasant and meaningful to engage with than fediverse discourse.

This is an open invitation for people to email me. Fediverse and Gikopoi may be faster ways to get ahold of me, but maybe you'd enjoy getting back into writing email. I always enjoy receiving and sending emails. You can find my email address on the contact page.

Related discussion: It's good to send emails to friends, Pohon BBS, 2024-01-12.